Much of this will be
implied when you
review some of the
typical service
offerings. But maybe
here we can start with
what astrology is not:
Astrology is not
connected with
psychics nor
magicians. |
There is an uninformed
minority who believe
that an astrologer is
actually a psychic or
a magician. He is
neither. An astrologer
is an analyst who
tries to read your
astrological
signatures and
describes time cycles.
In the course of doing
this, and particularly
for some charts more
than others, he may
seem psychic when he
can very closely "hit
on" personal
attributes, and/or
accurately describe
what is likely to have
happened in the past,
or will happen in the
future, on certain
dates. But truly this
is just a logical
deduction. (Although a
few astrologers are
coincidentally
somewhat psychic, this
doesn't imply that
their astrological
work is necessarily
better - sometimes
it's worse since they
let technique
deteriorate.)
Focus your
questions and
issues. |
Don't go to an
astrologer with the
open-ended question:
"Tell me my future"
(which is
actually a variation
of: "entertain me").
This is typically
quite unproductive.
It's better to get the
astrologer "tuned
into" your current
reality so he will
know how the symbols
are currently "acting
out" in your chart.
This focuses the
issues and allows
trends in motion to be
projected out to their
likely conclusion.
Despite this comment,
an astrologer will
very typically be able
to spot if your chart
is exhibiting
qualities typically
associated with an
upcoming divorce or
job loss, and so on,
depending on the
quality, volume and
intensity of the
patterns that are
present. We do this
quite commonly. But
more value is
typically derived from
a discussion that is
focused by you -
particularly if, in
fact, no major cycle
events are coming up.
Offer choices. |
An example of another
fairly poor question
is: "What
should I do for a
career?"
This is a common
question to an
astrologer. Yet please
note that there are,
in fact, over 65,000
unique job titles that
have been officially
defined in the US
alone. For example, a
person was a
glassblower for the
Federal Government. He
built complex glass
systems (sometimes to
a tolerance of
1/10,000th of an inch)
for chemists and
physicists that went
into CIA weapons, that
went into satellites,
etc. But who would
ever spontaneously
think of such an
occupation (or
thousands of others)?
You are much better
off presenting a few
career choices to an
astrologer since you
are probably already
having impulses in
certain directions.
This will allow him to
consider the
distinguishing
symbolic attributes
(of each choice) which
exist most strongly in
your chart, and also
to be able to link it
into the various
cycles you are
currently in (and
heading into). An
attraction to "fire"
and "precision" would
certainly have to be
in that person's chart
(and note that these
would not be good
attributes for a child
day care worker).
Readjust your
expectation of
astrological
"magic". |
I mentioned that
astrologers are not
magicians. By this I
mean that we do not
carry a magic wand
that can change your
life. Our work is
primarily descriptive
and only secondarily
prescriptive. One of
our primary jobs is to
give you a context to
synchronize your
consciousness with
your astrological
cycles. This is so
that you can get into
your own "zone" and
stop battling upstream
against your own
reality.
Now this can sometimes
extend to suggesting
various options for
dealing with the fixed
nature of certain
cycles, but very often
it is just your soul's
karma to have certain
experiences that your
ego may think it
doesn't want or need
(loss, fame,
confusion, etc.). But
remember that what
goes "down" typically
goes back "up," and an
astrologer should be
extremely helpful in
identifying both of
these for you.
[Having asserted that
we are not magicians,
I will say that some
of us actually do have
a few special tricks
up our sleeves which
can often help to
blunt or soften an
extreme difficulty, or
to maximize an
opportunity. Strictly
speaking, this is not
astrology, so I won't
go into it here.]
Use an astrologer
on a regular
basis. |
One of the tragedies
that an astrologer
often faces is that
certain clients only
present themselves at
the bottom of cycles.
Here necessity often
becomes the mother of
invention. But
astrologers, being
human too, get tired
of an excess of
clients who have just
been cast down
emotionally,
financially,
politically, and so
on. We love to have
the opportunity to
tell you when
otherwise unexpected
good cycles are coming
up so you can plan for
this and perhaps push
harder for some growth
opportunity during
this period
(especially as versus
just laying down and
just enjoying life
during the stronger
periods until they
pass over).
Here I should make a
comment on upcoming
"down" periods. It is
an astrologer's
fundamental duty to
mention these, but it
would be very unwise
for you to be overly
discouraged by this.
There is much value in
knowing the parameters
of such periods (and
we all get them).
Sometimes you may just
have to "stand aside,"
but other times you
may just have to
redouble your efforts
with no apparent
reward.
The good news,
however, is that when
you finally do cycle
back up, the
conscientious labours
of the frustration
period can often
return to benefit you.
So "down cycles"
should not induce a
fatalistic swoon; they
are more typically a
time for taking the
best and right action,
but with no
expectation of
immediate reward
(particularly at the
material level).
Have realistic
standards of
performance. |
You should expect high
standards of
performance from an
astrologer relative to
what is possible, but
you should not expect
perfection, just as
you cannot expect
perfection from any
other professional.
Some people will go to
several astrologers,
typically based upon
their books or upon
referral, before they
find someone they
prefer. If you can
afford it, this is a
good idea. It also
allows you to compare
all the elements that
contribute to your
personal sense of
value and service. But
keep in mind that a
lawyer is paid even if
his client goes to
jail, and a doctor is
paid even if his
patient dies.
The point is that,
since so many
unmanageable factors
can intervene, all
professional work is
necessarily performed
on a "best efforts"
basis. In the context
of astrology, the
biggest problem is
that an astrologer
never sees the same
pattern twice. We will
see elements of
patterns over and
over, but never the
same overall pattern.
Thus, in the end, each
chart is entirely
unique, and that is
why absolute certitude
is never possible
(although some of the
probabilities can be
very high).
Still, it is your
burden to make the
best choice of what
professional you would
like to use. You might
also note that
astrologers are
constrained by the
technical resources
available to them
(books, classes,
software, etc.), and
also by the resources
you have made
available to them.
By this I mean that if
their fees are set too
low for a
self-employed
professional, it means
they are an
inexperienced
beginner, or a
hobbyist, or a
part-timer, or lack
confidence in their
own work, or their
work doesn't attract
clients, or else they
have to be cutting
corners somewhere.
Astrologers have
mortgages too, so if
the fees of such a
very specialized
professional do not at
least match the
charges of an average
plumber or
electrician, you
should certainly
wonder why, no?
This prior paragraph
mentioned the issue of
"experience." For some
occupations this is
not so important; for
others it is, and
astrology is one of
these. Would you
rather go to a surgeon
who has performed 500
operations like the
one you plan ... or
50? The same rule
applies to how many
charts an astrologer
has professionally
processed. By the way,
believe it or not,
there are many
astrological
enthusiasts who have
been studying
astrology for decades,
but they have not,
cannot, or will not
interpret a chart.
Do you have an
okay chart for an
astrology
consultation?
|
There are three issues
here. Just as some
clients have good or
bad charts for
children, or money, or
career, or spouses,
etc. they also vary in
their ability to find,
and use, a good
astrologer! Some
people get chronically
excellent results, and
others will cycle with
frustration through
astrologer after
astrologer without
much value or success.
Like all other things
in life, this
particular strength or
weakness is another
element of your own
chart. Second, cycles
also enter into this.
Are your cycles "up"
or "down" when you
have the consultation?
How about the
astrologer's? Finally,
there is the issue of
the relationship
linkage between the
astrologer and the
client. Just as in any
other relationship,
some blend better than
others, and few things
in life are more
obvious than this.
This is the
mathematics of good
and bad "chemistry."
Sometimes
astrology is the
only relevant
resource. |
Sometimes astrology is
the only functional
mechanism to address
certain kinds of
problems. For example,
one of my astrologer
friend worked on one
kidnapping case where
a wealthy family paid
a huge ransom for the
release of their young
adult son. Their son
was subsequently not
released, and the
kidnappers, in fact,
demanded more ransom,
promising to really
release their son this
time!
So of course the
parents are left to
wonder if they will
pay five ransoms, end
up broke, and still
have no child. The
authorities were not
much help because the
authorities were part
of the problem
(tapping their phones,
etc.). What would you
do, i.e., how would
you structure leverage
or gain traction on
this problem?
In this case I submit
that only astrology
could address this
family's key issue,
and it was amazing
that they found him,
my astrologer friend,
by referral, after the
parents were already
several months into
this dilemma. After a
lot of complex
analysis (involving
the charts of the
mother, father,
sister, victim and his
spouse, and this was
after he had corrected
birth time errors for
all of them), he could
then give absolutely
authoritative advice
to the family about
how to respond to
this.
In fact, this ended up
saving them a huge
financial and tactical
error - and also
successfully brought
about the eventual
return of their son
(seven months into the
future within three
days of the day he
said it would happen -
and release was
categorically not
possible before that).
Three more
concluding
"useful" thoughts. |
So these are some
clues about how to
think about, and
optimize, a
astrological
consultation, and I
add these final
thoughts: First, your
astrologer should
collect background
about you before the
consultation. In fact,
the majority of a good
astrologer's time is
spent on your behalf
in analytical work
before the
consultation even
begins.
Second, I personally
believe every
astrologer should also
validate a client's
time of birth even if
it is seemingly known.
This means you need to
get together some
date-related
information about
certain events in your
past. A wrong time of
birth will wreck your
consultation, and even
though it's your bad
input, you will still
blame the astrologer
or astrology.
Finally, since 95% of
our clients are at a
distance, if possible
we also like to have a
(returnable) photo to
make the consultation
more personal, and
less isolated,
theoretical and
abstract.
I hope all this gives
you a more useful
context within which
to engage an
astrological
consultation. If you
have any further
questions on related
matters, please feel
free to inquire. |